21 weeks

As I wade through the early 2nd tri, this pregnancy becomes more and more real. With Anya, I never felt like there was really a baby inside me until she came out. Baz was a little more real, but after an early m/c, I was always anxious. This time it's more of the same, but the 2 sonos are giving me some reassurance. The baby appears to be healthy, but the bugger will not let us see whether we need pink or blue! We got no good shots this time, but the first scan showed one pretty good look at the "goods", so I'm assuming we've got a girl, but won't be surprised if it's a boy. I do hope we get one more chance to look before the kid comes out so I know whose hand-me downs to wash!